Making Yourself Irresistible

By Casey Evens

Learning how to be irresistible to men goes beyond applying the finest make-up, wearing the most expensive perfume or donning the latest fashions. Of course, good looks will capture a man's attention, but even the most beautiful women have to possess more than physical beauty in order to qualify as irresistible. Often, the very women that tend to knock men's socks off don't necessarily do anything extraordinary to their outer appearance, yet men can't seem to get enough of them.

The truth of the matter is that looks have less to do with it than you think. Even plain women who know the right tips and tricks can wow the people that they are interested in, and in many cases, it just boils down to-self confidence. How can you make sure that your attitude is in the right place to capture the guy of your dreams? Know what you are worth and make sure that you are showing off an impressive amount of confidence.

How can you make yourself irresistible to others?

Start by smiling when you mean it and making sure that you make direct eye contact. This shows people that you are not afraid of them and that you are self confident in your ability to handle things. It invites conversation and it can really get things going.

Do you slouch? Look at your posture right now and see where it stands. Slouching is a sign that you feel insecure and hesitant about yourself. Remember that you should push your shoulders back and lift your chin up. Be bold, be self confident and look the part.

Remember that you deserve respect. The way that you carry yourself can go a long way, and you'll find that it all starts from inside. What too many women do not know is that if you demand respect, you will get it. What are your standards and how do you want people to treat you? Never compromise on this one.

Get a life. This is the easiest way to advise you to find activities and people that you enjoy being around so that you can have a life outside of looking for a man. A woman who is busy enjoying life and who is not sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring is a woman that most men want to get to know better. This woman is also not clingy or overly needy in a relationship, which is a sure sign that confidence is lacking.

Tips on learning how to be irresistible to men may feel awkward when first trying them, but even experts advise that you take a "fake it 'til you make it" approach in the beginning, as doing these things will not automatically boost your confidence overnight. What they will do, however, is give you an outward appearance of confidence, which is a step in the right direction. Eventually, you will feel more comfortable behaving in these ways, as they become a part of your natural self.

When you improve yourself, remember that end goal is actually to make you someone who is irresistible... to yourself! Being irresistible to other people is just a great side effect; when you really love yourself and when you are proud of who you are becoming, you are going to find that you are in a place where you will command all the attention that you need and want; it really is that simple. - 29957

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